Relationship Intelligence Assessment

How clearly do you read a relationship when your feelings are involved?

Strong chemistry can make a connection feel obvious long before the relationship itself is actually clear. This assessment helps you step back and discover your personalized RIQ, your Relationship Intelligence Quotient, so you can see how you read connection when your own heart is in the room.

18 questions

Under five minutes

Personalized RIQ profile

Practical insight you can use immediately

Discover My RIQ

No right answers. No prediction. Just a clearer view of how you read connection.

A thoughtful woman assessing a relationship with clarity and discernment.
The gap between knowing and seeing

You understand relationships. Clarity gets harder once it is yours.

You can grasp the concepts, name the standards, and recognize the patterns in other people's stories. Then hope, attraction, uncertainty, or emotional investment enter the picture, and the same clarity becomes harder to hold. RIQ is a way to explore what actually happens to your judgement when the relationship stops being theoretical and becomes personal.

What you will discover

  • Your reference point

    How clearly you hold your own standards and needs when a connection pulls at you.

  • How you process

    The way you take in relationship information when hope and attraction are involved.

  • Insight into choice

    How your understanding actually turns into considered relationship decisions.

How it works

Three quiet steps to your RIQ

  1. 1

    Answer 18 scenarios

    Move through 18 real relationship situations in under five minutes.

  2. 2

    Discover your RIQ

    See your Relationship Intelligence Quotient, your personal reading of how you process connection.

  3. 3

    See your pattern

    Understand your personal pattern and the practical insight you can use right away.

RIQ profile across six areas of Relationship Intelligence
Portrait of Joan Nwosu
About Joan Nwosu

The pioneer of Relationship Intelligence

Joan Nwosu is an author, technology leader, and relationship strategist, and the pioneer of Relationship Intelligence. She built this framework for people who already care deeply about getting relationships right, and who want a grounded, honest way to understand how their own emotions shape what they see. RIQ is designed as a considered, human tool for understanding how you read connection when emotions are involved.

Questions, answered

Before you begin

See how you read a relationship when your feelings are involved

Discover My RIQ

18 questions. Under five minutes. A clearer view of yourself.