RIQ
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How clearly do you read a relationship when your feelings are involved?
Strong chemistry can make a connection feel obvious long before the relationship itself is actually clear. This assessment helps you step back and discover your personalized RIQ, your Relationship Intelligence Quotient, so you can see how you read connection when your own heart is in the room.
18 questions
Under five minutes
Personalized RIQ profile
Practical insight you can use immediately
No right answers. No prediction. Just a clearer view of how you read connection.

You understand relationships. Clarity gets harder once it is yours.
You can grasp the concepts, name the standards, and recognize the patterns in other people's stories. Then hope, attraction, uncertainty, or emotional investment enter the picture, and the same clarity becomes harder to hold. RIQ is a way to explore what actually happens to your judgement when the relationship stops being theoretical and becomes personal.
What you will discover
Your reference point
How clearly you hold your own standards and needs when a connection pulls at you.
How you process
The way you take in relationship information when hope and attraction are involved.
Insight into choice
How your understanding actually turns into considered relationship decisions.
Three quiet steps to your RIQ
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Answer 18 scenarios
Move through 18 real relationship situations in under five minutes.
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Discover your RIQ
See your Relationship Intelligence Quotient, your personal reading of how you process connection.
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See your pattern
Understand your personal pattern and the practical insight you can use right away.



The pioneer of Relationship Intelligence
Joan Nwosu is an author, technology leader, and relationship strategist, and the pioneer of Relationship Intelligence. She built this framework for people who already care deeply about getting relationships right, and who want a grounded, honest way to understand how their own emotions shape what they see. RIQ is designed as a considered, human tool for understanding how you read connection when emotions are involved.
Before you begin
See how you read a relationship when your feelings are involved
Discover My RIQ18 questions. Under five minutes. A clearer view of yourself.